"This is one of the most beautiful and intense love stories I have ever read. And I'm not saying that because it was written by my uncle Sjef about my uncle Thom. In this book Sjef takes you process of how he took care of his demented partner Thom. For the love of his life, he goes to the absolute extreme. Do not fear a tough book about illnesses and hospital visits. Dementia plays a starring role in the lives of Sjef and Thom, but is only an extra in the real story of this book: Sjef's deep love for Thom. Anyone who keeps it dry gets a cake from me!"